Swearing off swearing
So I gave up two things for the Lent season. I always give up something that's actually an effort. I believe it builds character. Besides, I hate being beholden to anything. Makes me feel controlled and, if you know me, you know I can't stand that.
First, I gave up any and all fried chicken. No fried fowl til after Easter for me. So far that's been the easy one. The second thing I gave up was cursing. Rachael and I gave it up together.
We both thought she'd have the harder time of it, but we're discovering that in fact I'm having a more difficult time not swearing. Particularly in the car.
The moment I shut that door and pull into traffic, the explicatives start flowing. Its funny, but neither she nor I had ever noticed I did that before until now. So I guess swearing off swearing was a good choice, even if I have found myself using fictional, geek, curse words, like saying "frack" from Battlestar Galactica.
It's been a battle, I've slipped up regularly. But Rae's there to remind me and that helps drive my goal in a bit deeper. She seems to be having a fairly easy time of it, which surprised us both, as we thought she was the worst of the two of us when it came to swearing. I think, perhaps, it's just more jarring coming from Rae, who is very feminine, than it is coming from me.
When Rae drops an F-bomb, you notice. Apparently, however, one faulty traffic light during rush hour and I could level Coventry.
So, I keep trying, though I slip up again and again. Hopefully, in the end, some of it will stick. If I really swear this much it needs to stop. I didn't use to swear like this, I'm sure of that. I always thought explicatives were for those who lacked vocabulary.
Its hard to find out that I'm the one that needs to pick up a thesaurus more often these days.
First, I gave up any and all fried chicken. No fried fowl til after Easter for me. So far that's been the easy one. The second thing I gave up was cursing. Rachael and I gave it up together.
We both thought she'd have the harder time of it, but we're discovering that in fact I'm having a more difficult time not swearing. Particularly in the car.
The moment I shut that door and pull into traffic, the explicatives start flowing. Its funny, but neither she nor I had ever noticed I did that before until now. So I guess swearing off swearing was a good choice, even if I have found myself using fictional, geek, curse words, like saying "frack" from Battlestar Galactica.
It's been a battle, I've slipped up regularly. But Rae's there to remind me and that helps drive my goal in a bit deeper. She seems to be having a fairly easy time of it, which surprised us both, as we thought she was the worst of the two of us when it came to swearing. I think, perhaps, it's just more jarring coming from Rae, who is very feminine, than it is coming from me.
When Rae drops an F-bomb, you notice. Apparently, however, one faulty traffic light during rush hour and I could level Coventry.
So, I keep trying, though I slip up again and again. Hopefully, in the end, some of it will stick. If I really swear this much it needs to stop. I didn't use to swear like this, I'm sure of that. I always thought explicatives were for those who lacked vocabulary.
Its hard to find out that I'm the one that needs to pick up a thesaurus more often these days.